A lender is considered the kindest when lending, yet regarded as the meanest when asking for their money back.

=20 August 2025=

The thing that is ironically sad is that, sometimes people hurt others first before they get hurt. 

Perhaps, this is a form of defense mechanism. 

lameleftygirl

=17.07.2016=

I'm thankful to God for giving me the eyes that can see good in 'bad' people and see the bad in 'good' people.

This ability just reinforce the fact that we all are equal.

 

=lameleftygirl=

12th November 2012

I always found what I was looking for when I stopped looking for it.

So, I stopped looking for you and if this trick works, I would eventually found you.

 

-lameleftygirl-

3rd November 2012



"It's ironic that the reason I'm attracted to you is because you're hard to read,

yet the reason that I'm losing my attraction towards you is because I can't read you."

 

=16th October 2012=

Words and Actions

Actions speak louder than words. My words may hurt, but your actions hurt more.

=inspired on 28th July 2012=

lameleftygirl

Funny but True

It's weird and funny...

No matter how many times you laugh, it's that one time when you cry that you will remember,

No matter how many times people say 'I love you', it's that one 'I hate you' that will remain in your memory forever.

Maybe it ain't funny and weird that you remember these things. Maybe it's because the cry and the hate is more real than the laughter and the love.

 =lameleftygirl=

- inspired on 10th June 2012-

Ain't it funny

Ain't it funny,

We can forget all the good things a person did, when that person did one mistake or being bad for just once,

and we began to suspect that all the good things he or she did was insincere.

Why it is so much easier to believe that one person is really bad than to believe that one person is really good?

Or at least, believe that one person is neutral and good but with a few weaknesses and flaws? 

I wonder, is it because evil is more real than kindness?

It might hurt twice as much

Sometimes, it's better just to let you alone being hurt by the one you love, rather than you hurting back the one that you love.

Cause deep down you know it might hurt twice as much as it hurts you now to know that the person you loved is hurt by you.

=lameleftygirl=

inspired on 21st November 2011

Irony

The curse about being kind to many people is that...

Those who are really special to you find it hard to feel your special kindness to them, since you are kind to everybody...

Instead of feeling that they are special to you, they might think they are just another person you are kind to. 

 Well, the same goes to having too many friends.

Having too many friends will limit the time that you really wanted to spend with those whom you actually care for. 

Like they say, we should always give priority to quality instead of quantity.

Too bad that it always remain as a saying rather than an action.

=inspired on 16th September 2011=

lameleftygirl

Special in our own way...

Do not be frustrated when everybody else can do easily the things that seems hard for you.

Because you too have the ability to do something which not everyone else can do easily if you take a close look at yourself.

After all, life is fair, if you really reflect on it. 

=lameleftygirl=

inspired on 5th September 2011

IRONIK, KAN?

"Lelaki yang benar-benar baik tidak akan mengaku dirinya baik,

Lelaki yang benar-benar jahat tidak akan mengaku dirinya jahat."

PS: Begitu juga dengan perempuan. 

=lameleftygirl=

Inspired on August 2011

Who is more dangerous than a furious enemy?

Answer: A jealous friend.

=lameleftygirl=

(inspired on 7th August 2011)

Be thankful, even to those who are unkind

"Kadang-kadang, kita tidak
sedar akan kelebihan kita sehinggalah orang lain dengki dengan kita.
Jadi kadang-kadang haruslah kita berterima kasih kepada mereka yang
dengki itu kerana menyedarkan kita akan kelebihan kita."

 =lameleftygirl=

inspired on December 2010

Is An Evidence Always True?

They say, a picture tells a thousand words. 

But have they ever wondered, in that 1000 words, how many of them are true?

(21st June 2011)

=lameleftygirl=

I Meant It When I Am Mean

"Because of mean girls like you,

Meaner girls like me exist."

(10th June 2011)

LAME IRONY

" The advantage of being the youngest among my siblings is that I can learn from their mistakes; the disadvantage is that I have no excuse to make one." 

(inspired on 15th May 2011)

=lameleftygirl=